Growing up without your father hasn’t been easy. Discover that you can meet him might be scary. If you have the opportunity, don’t miss it. Your father may not recognize you or accept the idea that you are his child. You can search the Internet for “legal DNA testing near me” to find labs in your city to perform a paternity test. Most men get scared when a supposed son tells them he wants to do one of these tests. To prevent him from refusing, you can do one without legal validity. Like a home gender test, the lab will send the results to your email, and you can only use them as a means of information. These results are not admissible in court so if the test shows that the man is your father, no legal ties are created.
Deciding between a hug or a complaint?
It is normal to feel some resentment towards a man who never cared about you. You don’t have to call him “dad,” but you can listen to his story to find out why he never looked out for you. It’s not about hugging him or complaining to him, but rather …
